Watch for Signs During Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

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Each February, young adults and their loved ones nationwide raise awareness about teen dating violence through Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM). This annual, month-long effort focuses on advocacy and education to stop dating abuse before it starts.

Dating violence is more common than you may think, especially among teens and young adults: 1 in 3 U.S. teens will experience physical, sexual, or emotional abuse from someone they’re in a relationship with before becoming adults. And nearly half (43%) of U.S. college women report experiencing violent or abusive dating behaviors.

It’s important to seek help if you see signs that a relationship is unhealthy or becoming abusive. Teens can pay attention to these warning signs:

  • Emotional Abuse:

    • Constant criticism or insults: Being called names, put down, or constantly criticized.
    • Extreme jealousy or possessiveness: Wanting to know your every move, controlling who you see or talk to.
    • Isolation: Being pressured to spend all your time with them and cut off contact with friends and family.
    • Threats and intimidation: Being threatened with harm, either physical or emotional.
    • Controlling behavior: Making decisions for you, telling you what to wear or how to act.

  • Physical Abuse:

    • Hitting, slapping, kicking, or shoving.
    • Any form of unwanted physical contact.

  • Sexual Abuse:

    • Unwanted sexual touching or pressure to have sex.
    • Sharing sexually explicit photos without consent.
    • Coercion or pressure to engage in sexual activity.

  • Technological Abuse:

    • Constant texting or calling.
    • Monitoring social media activity.
    • Demanding passwords to phones or social media accounts.
    • Posting embarrassing or private photos or videos online without consent.

  • Other Signs:

    • Unexplained injuries.
    • Sudden changes in behavior, mood, or appearance.
    • Withdrawal from friends and family.
    • Loss of interest in hobbies or activities.
    • Low self-esteem.
    • Fear or anxiety around their partner.

Important Note: If you or someone you know is experiencing dating violence, please reach out for help. You are not alone.

  • Someplace Safe | call 800-974-3359 or text 844-980-0169 or chat online at www.someplacesafe.info
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline | 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
  • Love is Respect: https://www.loveisrespect.org/

A Multifaceted Approach to Addressing Exploitation and Trafficking of Youth

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The exploitation and trafficking of youth is a crime that requires a multifaceted approach to address effectively. In response, Someplace Safe greatly enhanced its trafficking programming over the last year. Three new staff members were added to serve trafficking victims and survivors: Lupita Trickle, Aspen Myer, and Madison Hays. Lupita works with survivors of labor trafficking and exploitation of all ages. Aspen and Madison work with youth who are sexually exploited, sex trafficked, or at risk.

We encourage you to take a look at some key strategies that can help to address risks of exploitation and trafficking of youth in our communities:

  1. Prevention:
  • Education and Awareness: Educate the public, especially youth, about the signs of trafficking and exploitation. This includes recognizing grooming behaviors, understanding the risks associated with online interactions, and knowing how to seek help. All four regional youth advocates at Someplace Safe are certified to offer Safe Dates, a healthy relationships curriculum through Hazelden for youth ages 12 to 18. Five staff are certified to offer Not a Number, a human trafficking prevention curriculum to youth ages 12 to 18.
  • Strengthening Protective Factors: Addressing underlying factors that make youth vulnerable, such as poverty, homelessness, lack of access to education, and family instability is crucial. Providing support systems like after-school programs, mental health services, and safe housing options can also help.
  • Promoting Healthy Relationships: Teach children and adolescents about healthy relationships, consent, and boundaries.
  1. Intervention and Response:
  • Hotlines and Reporting Mechanisms: Promote accessible hotlines and reporting mechanisms for victims and concerned citizens to report suspected cases of trafficking. Someplace Safe advocates are available 24/7 at 800-974-3359.
  • Multidisciplinary Task Forces: Create collaborative teams involving law enforcement, social services, healthcare providers, and victim advocates to coordinate investigations, provide support to victims, and prosecute traffickers.
  • Trauma-Informed Care: Ensure that all interactions with victims, from law enforcement to service providers, are trauma-informed and prioritize their safety and well-being.
  1. Support for Survivors:
  • Safe Shelters and Transitional Housing: Safe and supportive shelters and transitional housing help survivors to recover and rebuild their lives.
  • Comprehensive Services: Offering a range of services, including medical care, mental health counseling, legal assistance, and job training, helps survivors to heal and reintegrate into society.
  • Empowerment and Advocacy: Empowering survivors to advocate for themselves and their rights, and support organizations that work to combat trafficking and exploitation is key to supporting survivors in their healing.
  1. Addressing Root Causes:
  • Combating Poverty and Inequality: Address systemic issues like poverty, inequality, and discrimination, which can increase vulnerability to trafficking.
  • Holding Traffickers Accountable: Utilize opportunities to share information and opportunities geared at strengthening laws and enforcement efforts to hold traffickers accountable for their crimes.

It’s important to remember that combating human trafficking and exploitation of youth requires a sustained and collaborative effort from governments, non-profit organizations, communities, and individuals. Someplace Safe is committed to this important work!

Watch for several learning opportunities in 2025 on the topic of human trafficking in Minnesota. We are kicking it off with a panel discussion on January 8 featuring service providers from across the state discussing human trafficking, including strategies for prevention, and intervention. Registration is free. More info can be found here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/human-trafficking-awareness-month-panel-discussion-tickets-1116858266139?aff=oddtdtcreator

We will also be hosting a webinar on January 16 titled Trafficking of Minors: Mitigating Risk Factors & Enhancing Resilience. More information can be found on the Eventbrite page at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/trafficking-of-minors-mitigating-risk-factors-enhancing-resilience-tickets-1119969321389?aff=oddtdtcreator&keep_tld=1

For more information on upcoming events, training, or services available for victims and survivors of trafficking and exploitation, reach out directly to Anne Lafrienier-Ritchie, Regional Navigator, at anne.lr@someplacesafe.info.

 

 

Help Support Survivors and Community This Holiday Season

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While financial support is invaluable, there are many ways to support survivors during the holidays (and all year long) in addition to making monetary contributions. Here are some ideas:

Emotional Support:

  • Active Listening: Be present and listen attentively to their experiences without judgment.
  • Offer Comfort: A simple hug, a shoulder to cry on, or a kind word can provide immense comfort.
  • Validate Their Feelings: Let them know that their feelings are valid and that they are not alone.
  • Encourage Professional Help: Help seek options for therapy or counseling to process their trauma if they choose.

Practical Support:

  • Offer Transportation: Help with transportation to appointments, court hearings, or therapy sessions.
  • Assist with Errands: Offer to run errands, such as grocery shopping or picking up prescriptions.
  • Provide Childcare: If the survivor has children, offer to babysit or help with childcare arrangements.
  • Support with Legal or Administrative Tasks: Assist with paperwork, phone calls, or other administrative tasks.

Community Support:

  • Spread Awareness: Share information about domestic violence and sexual assault on social media or in your community.
  • Volunteer: Volunteer your time at a Someplace Safe Advocacy office or Thrift Store to provide support to survivors.
  • Donate Essential Items: Donate clothing, toiletries, or other essential items to shelters or organizations that support survivors.
  • Attend Awareness Events: Participate in rallies, marches, or other events to raise awareness about domestic violence and sexual assault.

Remember, every act of kindness, no matter how small, can make a significant difference in a survivor’s life. By offering your time, compassion, and support, you can help empower survivors to heal and rebuild their lives.

For more information on how you can support survivors this holiday season, visit Giving Opportunities at Someplace Safe. If you or someone you know are in need of advocacy services or support, call 800-974-3359.